webhook: support elasticquota enable update resource key

[lijunxin559]

Ⅰ. Describe what this PR does

Currently, the consistency check for resource types in elastic quota's add, delete and update is insufficient and too rigid. For example, maxResourceKey requires parent-child consistency, which can lead to the following problems:

1. There is no unified logic to check the various resource types of min/max, which can easily lead to inconsistencies
2. Unable to flexibly support changing resource types, especially when adding new resources, limited by the initial creation status

However, considering the original intention of quota design and current computing logic, it does not affect related calculations while supporting resource type checks(also already added more unitTest cases). Among them:

1. The setting intentions of min and max are different and the calculation logic is not dependent. The resource types need to be checked separately
2. Guaranteed is affected by min calculation, so there is no need to check separately

Ⅱ. Does this pull request fix one issue?

I propose to add a feature called ElasticQuotaEnableUpdateResourceKey to support changes to ElasticQuota Resource Key, with the following modifications:

1. Support min and max resourceKey checks during elasticQuota add and update: checkSubAndParentGroupQuotaKey()
2. Support AnnotationSharedWeight updated: when SharedWeight has a key which is not included in max, delete it; when SharedWeight does not have the key of max, it defaults to be filled in the quantity of max
3. Maintain compatibility of resourceKeys update logic: updateResourceKeyNoLock()
4. Propose standard process operations for elastic quota resourceKey: add resourceKey from parent node to child node, delete resourceKey from child node to parent node

Ⅲ. Describe how to verify it

Ⅳ. Special notes for reviews

V. Checklist

• I have written necessary docs and comments
• I have added necessary unit tests and integration tests
• All checks passed in make test

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[shaloulcy]

group_quota_manager.go里面的UpdateQuota、RefreshRuntime 需要加单侧覆盖这种情况

[lijunxin559]

group_quota_manager.go里面的UpdateQuota、RefreshRuntime 需要加单侧覆盖这种情况

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[shaloulcy]

/lgtm

[saintube]

Good job! @lijunxin559