smscalls: allow large XML files as input

once XML files increase past a certain size
(was about 220MB for me), the parser just throws
an error because the tree is too large (iirc for
security reasons)

could maybe look at using iterparse in the future
to parse it without loading the whole file, but this
seems to fix it fine for me

my/smscalls.py

@@ -57,9 +57,12 @@ def from_me(self) -> bool:
 # The '(Unknown)' is just what my android phone does, not sure if there are others
 UNKNOWN: set[str] = {'(Unknown)'}
 
+def _parse_xml(xml: Path) -> Any:
+    return etree.parse(str(xml), parser=etree.XMLParser(huge_tree=True))
+
 
 def _extract_calls(path: Path) -> Iterator[Res[Call]]:
-    tr = etree.parse(str(path))
+    tr = _parse_xml(path)
     for cxml in tr.findall('call'):
         dt = cxml.get('date')
         dt_readable = cxml.get('readable_date')
@@ -133,7 +136,7 @@ def messages() -> Iterator[Res[Message]]:
 
 
 def _extract_messages(path: Path) -> Iterator[Res[Message]]:
-    tr = etree.parse(str(path))
+    tr = _parse_xml(path)
     for mxml in tr.findall('sms'):
         dt = mxml.get('date')
         dt_readable = mxml.get('readable_date')
@@ -225,8 +228,7 @@ def _resolve_null_str(value: str | None) -> str | None:
 
 
 def _extract_mms(path: Path) -> Iterator[Res[MMS]]:
-    tr = etree.parse(str(path))
-
+    tr = _parse_xml(path)
     for mxml in tr.findall('mms'):
         dt = mxml.get('date')
         dt_readable = mxml.get('readable_date')
@@ -271,10 +273,7 @@ def _extract_mms(path: Path) -> Iterator[Res[MMS]]:
                 #
                 # This seems pretty useless, so we should try and skip it, and just return the
                 # text/images/data
-                #
-                # man, attrib is some internal cpython ._Attrib type which can't
-                # be typed by any sort of mappingproxy. maybe a protocol could work..?
-                part_data: dict[str, Any] = part.attrib  # type: ignore
+                part_data: dict[str, Any] = part.attrib
                 seq: str | None = part_data.get('seq')
                 if seq == '-1':
                     continue