Reduce number of aiohttp.TCPConnector cleanup_closed checks to one per minute

[bdraco]

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The default of 2.0 seconds is too low for our use case as most tls/ssl connections will close cleanly, and cleanup_closed is only needed for connections that fail to correctly abort. Cleaning these up every 60.0 seconds is more than sufficient as every 2.0 seconds generated an excessive amount of event loop scheduling.

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[bdraco]

I probably need to fix some more upstream first since it churns the timer handles just like we see in aio-libs/aiohttp#8608

[bdraco]

This is working exactly as expected. The problem I was seeing is from other connector instances not using our helper which have the default value which creates a timer every 2s