feat(node): Do not create GraphQL resolver spans by default

[mydea]

Users can pass ignoreResolveSpans and ignoreTrivalResolveSpans to the integration now, which is passed to the instrumentation. They default to true. This should reduce noise and perf overhead.

Closes #12092

[Lms24]

Sounds reasonable to me!

[github-actions]

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[HofmannZ]

@mydea - I looks like there's a typo introduced in this PR (and still in the latest version.) ignoreTrivalResolveSpans should be ignoreTrivialResolveSpans.

[mydea]

Ah, good catch - will fix this too in #13248!