fix gpups error when upgrade cuda12.3

[danleifeng]

PR Category

Parameter Server

PR Types

Bug fixes

Description

fix gpups error when upgrade cuda12.3/cudnn9

 ExternalError: CUDA error(400), invalid resource handle.
      [Hint: 'cudaErrorInvalidResourceHandle'. This indicates that a resource handle passed to the API call was not valid. Resource handles are opaque types like cudaStream_t and cudaEvent_t.] (at ../paddle/fluid/framework/fleet/heter_ps/heter_comm_inl.h:516)
      [operator < pull_gpups_sparse > error]. (at ../paddle/phi/core/threadpool.h:40)

Pcard-81973

[paddle-bot]

你的PR提交成功，感谢你对开源项目的贡献!
请关注后续CI自动化测试结果，详情请参考Paddle-CI手册。
Your PR has been submitted. Thanks for your contribution!
Please wait for the result of CI firstly. See Paddle CI Manual for details.

[danleifeng]

next pr will fix gpups all cuda success check

[sneaxiy]

Please add error check to cudaMemcpyAsync in the next PR.