Build abi3 wheels for python binding

[houqp]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.

For every python binding release, we are building python wheels for specific python patch versions.

Describe the solution you'd like

Build a single abi3 wheel for each platform for better forward compatibility and reduce complexity.

Here is an example of what abi3 wheel looks like: https://pypi.org/project/deltalake/#files.
It can be configured like so https://github.com/delta-io/delta-rs/blob/3f87e76d0462621993095760e537dcf21999c348/python/Cargo.toml#L27.

[houqp]

@jorgecarleitao @jimexist @kszucs do you know if there is any particular reason why we are not building abi3 wheels? It's been working really well for deltalake's python binding, so I figured we might want to go with the same setup for datafusion as well.

[kszucs]

In theory we should be able to build abi3 wheels. There are some limitations, but abi3 wheels look promising.

We may want to keep this issue open for later evaluation.

[houqp]

Good call @kszucs , I wasn't aware of that. I filed #955 to keep the task description more specific.