fix!: update peerstore and releated deps for libp2p@0.45 compat

[achingbrain]

Updates all libp2p deps to fix up use of gossipsub with libp2p@0.45.x

Refs: libp2p/js-libp2p-peer-store#75

BREAKING CHANGE: requires libp2p@0.45.x

[what-the-diff]

PR Summary

• Updated peer store with a new interface
  An improvement to the peer store to use a more efficient and modern interface
• Added events property for testing
  Enhancement for developers to test components with events property added to the object
• Removed unused RecordEnvelope import and related code
  Cleanup done by removing unnecessary code and imports related to peer record handling, since it's now managed in the peer store
• Modified connection manager event listener
  For better functionality, the connection manager event listener has been changed from 'peer:connect' to 'libp2p:connection-manager/new-connection'

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Codecov Report

Patch coverage: 48.57% and project coverage change: -0.02 ⚠️

Comparison is base (f62859b) 82.96% compared to head (cadfaf4) 82.95%.

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Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
src/index.ts	70.12% <5.88%> (-0.09%)	⬇️
test/compliance.spec.ts	41.46% <50.00%> (+1.98%)	⬆️
test/utils/create-pubsub.ts	81.53% <100.00%> (+1.53%)	⬆️

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[achingbrain]

@wemeetagain any chance of a review here?

[wemeetagain]

Lgtm